Good Vibes With an Openmind

💜💜💜Lately I’ve been personally struggling with a few things that have really taken such an emotional toll, I am literally frozen in a procrastinated state that  it’s disturbing.  (Note this is not good for one that has and occasionally deals with anxiety and ADD.)

Here’s why:  I have not only this business to grow, nurture and manage, I also have an opportunity to create a custom sneaker idea with literally no overhead that I need to bring to fruition.  In addition, I also have an elderly mom to care for  and an 8 year old boy to raise solely on my own.  This plate of life is full enough as it is and random anxiety, procrastination or a lack of focus are not great spices for this mix. It’s because I’m allowing a negative reaction, tone or energy consume me.

So I started reflecting on the past few days and realized that I was overly sensitive and more defensive then the usual me.  I realized that because of the personal stress I was allowing certain topics or behavior to trigger a rather negative me.  And you know what?  I really by nature, am not a negative being.  I realized my sensitivity was at such an obnoxious state that specific triggers brought out unnecessary anger.  Until when, in these past few days, some very good friends (with very very very kind, similar personalities) had to literally call me out to relax.  They know my stressors first hand, my same stressors also being theirs, but the difference is they know how to manage it to such a point, it’s literally inspiring to watch and learn how to manage life’s struggles from these two.  These are two people who can for the most part navigate around my sensitive emotions that the result is without flare ups or drama – from me.  So I started thinking what was my problem?  I’m kind, I’m generous, I’m patient,  I have a high tolerance for bullshit, I’m positive…o-p-e-n-m-i-n-d-e-d.

Wait a minute!  Am I open minded if I let the different behaviors of others – ones that I absolutely can’t stand – trigger me!  How is that o-p-e-n-m-i-n-d-e-d?  It’s not, and perhaps today I had my epiphany!  Thats the element that’s been holding me down from easily manifesting things I could before!  I, yes me, not even realizing it had been feeding myself negative vibes completely and unintentionally.  It’s had a huge effect on me and immediate things I wanted to manifest were not ready to happen because of my negative vibe.

Having an open mind means LISTENING to other perspectives WITHOUT getting triggered.  I REALIZED this today when I emotionally broke down because lately I feel like I’m failing the 5 most important people in my life.  A breakdown because I wasn’t being o-p-e-n-m-i-n-d-e-d to thoughts and feelings of others without feeling it was my responsibility.  When in fact, if I removed the negativity and opened my mind, I didn’t necessarily need to agree but I definitely could add value to my life by just listening and making adjustments.

So if I was getting triggered, I’m not as open minded as I claimed to be.  So I had to release the negativity and open my mind.  Guess what?  I felt such a weight lift off my shoulders realizing this, that it was an amazing feeling!  Starting at this point.  Literally this 👏🏻very 👏🏻point 👏🏻I realized I’m not as open minded as I claim that I am, and now is👏🏻the👏🏻time to 👏🏻make 👏🏻a 👏🏻few 👏🏻mindset adjustments.

So now I know and learned one of the HARDEST things to master on my personal growth journey is there is some sort of value in EVERYTHING… and I don’t have to agree with it ALL. That’s the problem, I try to validate 👏🏻and 👏🏻make 👏🏻myself 👏🏻try to agree with everyone’s opinion.  No wonders I felt bad and negative!

I reminded myself that one of the biggest keys to success that I’ve seen consistent amongst all successful people is that successful people find the value in EVERYTHING.

So when I listen to others complain about something or someone, and how they or it were a “complete waste of time”… Instead of letting it annoy me, I wonder how they came to that and what value or what can I learn from it?  How can I put this in their perspective? At the very least,there’s something valuable and new that I can learn from this and about myself.

Even if I don’t LOVE every thing someone has to say, experience I have, every book I read, and every single person I come across, I often find that there’s a piece of value I can STILL find to 👏🏻improve 👏🏻my 👏🏻life.

Starting today I promised myself if I get triggered, I just open up a prompt for myself to reflect about why I just got triggered and adjust my mindset.

If I had the thought of “I already know that” about information someone was telling me, I would immediately challenge myself and ask myself “oh really? So are you living it then?” “You can’t change your mindset and learn some value in this?”

If I came across an angry person or someone who mistreated me, I would find an opportunity to get CURIOUS and WONDER, why are they that way? What did they experience in their life to grow up and act in such a way? How can I help them in any way? How can I learn from what they are saying?

If I come across a negative person, I find an opportunity to just observe their thoughts and belief systems and see what NOT to do if I want to be successful in life.  But what if that negativity is directed at me?  How can I learn to not take everything as a personal hit, but something I can learn from or make more value in my life?

I will see absolutely nothing as a waste of time. Everything is an opportunity to learn something new— to pick up value from. There is value in every moment of your life, but if you shut it out you’ll just get the negative experience with no growth or powerful lesson behind it. Now THAT’s a waste of time – especially if you are putting a block towards those things you want to manifest.

So how can you start finding the value in your every day life to help you learn, grow, and broaden your perspective? Some things to think about ✌🏻😈

One of the most valuable to me?  This lil man right here! I am so lucky and blessed to be his mommy!  💙👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻💙

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There are no Limits!

January is going to be over in just 4 short days!!  I can’t believe how fast time flies, and honestly, I don’t care!  Too many people start off the year with a bang, only to look at the end of the first month and beat themselves up if there were not enough achievements.  Trust me, I tend to fall in that range, and work hard (every day) to get out of that mindset.  I won’t call it being an overachiever.  Not in the least bit.  But, I do wear a lot of hats (Entrepreneur, Mommy, Caretaker for my elderly mom) and admittingly, I strive to do everything.  Until my friend sat with me this past Friday night and honestly (thank god) said: “girl, you are not super mom, if you try to do everything for everyone every day, you will not sustain”.  And she is 100% right!

So, for me it’s no big deal, I’ve promised myself to not measure myself in time, but accept the inevitable setbacks, manage my attitude going in, thru and out, and how I remind myself to adjust, reset and move on without considering myself a failure.  No, not a perfectionist at all, but I am hard on myself, and get frustrated when things aren’t right or I see my efforts don’t make people happy.

So today as I was reflecting, visualizing and manifesting, I found this inspiring quote from Micheal Phelps:

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So how will I positively look at this?

There will be obstacles:  Yup!  It’s true, on a daily basis!  So let’s break it down,  I’m a business owner, a single mom of a 7-year-old, and a caretaker of an 82-year-old queen (my top priorities right now), and those obstacles hit me head on all day👏 long! But how I manage it, will make a difference.  I need to learn to delegate, not get frustrated and accept that sometimes, things just 👏 won’t 👏 happen 👏today.  Easy right? It should be, but really my biggest obstacle!

There will be doubters:  absolutely!  Sadly, and I don’t even feel bad admitting this, most, no wait, all of my doubters are B-L-O-O-D related!  The hurt is even more.  Especially when in the past despite their own faults, negativity and anger I was there.  Because we are related.  But, what’s more important is how I receive it and react.  Again, that great friend I mentioned earlier also gave me this solid as hell advise.  So this week going forward, I promise myself, I’ll let the haters say what they have to say.  I don’t need to hear it or let it consume me.  They have a right to their opinion, but I don’t need to receive the negativity or even care what they think.

There will be mistakes:  OK,  well I trip over the air between my feet.  LOL!  Yeah, it’s true.  My best of friends watch it on a daily basis and I make sure to laugh.  But where I’m tough on myself is when I do make mistakes.  I tend to take on guilt rather than just accepting I fucked something up, so I just need to reset and reboot.  So this week, I’ll remind myself to laugh, stop being so critical on myself and move on.  I’m not perfect, and trust me I am good about getting on people’s nerves.  Especially when I start giving myself a guilt trip.  So this week I vow to stop,  breathe and remind myself I’m not perfect, there is no guilt needed and I’m surrounded by the people who love me and even if I fuck up, it’s doesn’t change their perception of me.  With that said, I need to continue saying, I’m a fucking seriously kick-ass chick!

But with hard work, there are no limits:  so basically, keep my head down, work my ass off, stop being so tough on myself, take a breath and everything I envision in my head, will truly be achieved.  But I need to keep a positive mindset and nothing will stop me.

So what’s next?  Who knows!  I’m supposed to be living in the present and not care about what happened or what is going to happen.  So what’s next? I’m gonna crush the hell out of this week, the coming month and the rest of the year.  Why do I know or believe this?  Cause I believe in myself, and I want nothing more than to show my son if you believe in yourself, it can be done, and give my mom – the queen everything she deserves for everything she did for me. I guess that’s a mom thing, right?

Does all this resonate with you?  Are you in a similar position?  Share your thoughts and comments.  It takes a tribe, and I feel inspired.  So let’s motivate each other!

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Content Creation is our THING!

Recently we were hired by an up and coming drop shipper True Fashionz!

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They believe fashion thrives on individuality, and brands are statements of community and cultural connection. They trust influencers to use their individual aesthetics and community interactions to breathe life into the fashions they create so they can bring their exclusive merchandise right into your wardrobe.

As they are in the process of finishing up the building of their shop, we created all of their social platforms, and started their social marketing with some pretty bad ass content if we do say so ourselves!

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Discover their world of specially-made fashion attire inspired by you. Choose from thousands of constantly updated collections, from apparel and accessories to beauty and lifestyle.  Your happiness begins right here: https://truefashionz.com.co
To learn more about She She Koi Studio’s and how we can assist you in not only creating some pretty sick content, but also managing your daily small business social media needs:  Contact She She

Leggings!!

 

Check out these beautiful leggings I just scored on Amazon!!

Working from home, I have the luxury of being comfortable during the day, but I also need to look presentable and ready at a minutes notice to run out if there is a quick meeting, or something to attend to for a client.  So I am always on the look out for new leggings!  I found these cute ones that I will share in the video below!  Check it out!

I was actually quiet impressed!  They arrived quickly (thanks Prime!), and were sealed in a really cool zip bag which gave me the impression I was opening up a little present.  The leggings are very soft and subtle and dare I *gasp!* compare them to LuLa Roe – if not better.

Like I said in the video, I am absolutely in love with these! They are super cozy, soft and subtle and the price can’t go wrong.  The vendor’s name is MTSCE and they have a ton of colors/patterns to choose from.  I got them for $22.99 but the prices vary but regardless the cost is reasonable.

I highly recommend these and I do not think you can go wrong!  Browse shop my mermaid fish scales and all other colors here:  http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B072177BX3

 

Our Client – Mall Babes

At She She Koi, it’s not just creating the daily graphic & written content, but we can create new logo’s for our clients as well. Like this one we created for our newest client (and online video game) @MallBabes
 
We look forward to servicing your needs: www.sheshekoistudios.com
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WealthZoo – Content Creation

There are many aspects of social media we love doing, but #contentcreation is obviously a big part. #sharing some of the recent work created for our client WealthZoo

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❤️L❤️O❤️V❤️E❤️ What I do!

I do what I do, caz I ❤️L❤️OV❤️E❤️ what I do. #Love your #career and it won’t seem like #work. This is so true for me! 🙏🏻so #thankful to the energy of the #universe for all my #blessings! A little #content share for my client 5 Wild Hairs & Threading Salon

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Obsessed with Sunnies!!

 

Check out these wicked sunnies I got on Amazon last week!  I’m obsessed!  Check out the video below and se the link below video to browse and shop.

As many of you know, I am absolutely obsessed with sunnies!  Always on the quest for big and glam, I found these babies on Amazon last week and had to share them with you!    I got these over the weekend and I was super impressed for $17.99, they are incredible sturdy glasses and came with a case, a cleaning cloth and a little bag to carry the case.  It’s pretty reasonable considering a lot of vendors will literally send at best the sunnies, and a cleaner for almost the same price.  So this is a bargain for sure!!

So not only are these gorgeous and make me look glam, they are perfect protection for my light brown eyes in the sun.  There are 3 other colors to choose from, clear, pink and charcoal.  All of which I am sure I’ll be adding to my collection soon!

To see these beauties for yourself, click on the below link which will take you right to Amazon.  More pictures and a glam shot of moi following the link!  🙂

Click here to browse shop these awesome sunnies!

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Content Creation – Modern Mystics

I am on F✨I✨R✨E today! Working up some magic for my clients that I’m so thankful for 🙏🏻❤️🌟! See me here →

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Content Portfolio Mash Up 9/21

Sharing a selection of the content created for our clients dated 9/21/17. We are very versatile in the graphic content we can create for our clients. From Graphic content for social posts, to logo’s for new companies and banner graphics we are confident in our ability to create enticing content to create emotion and engagement with your followers.Fit Revenge Weight Loss Motivation Weight loss Inspiration Before and after Weight Loss Weight Loss Challenge Weight Loss Tips Weight Loss PillsFit Revenge Testimonials PCOS Living With PCOS Weight loss with PCOS PCOS Support GroupsBliss Veils Etst Shop us on etsy Facebook Buy Wedding Veils onlineFor Modern Mystics Coach Tracy James New Moon in Virgo New Moonshe she koi Chere Goldberg Follow Us Follow us on Pinterest Pinterest Pinterest Users to Follow Pinterest Pins Pinterest Ion Pinterest LogoMobile Shop Stop Facebook Banner Samsung AccessoriesMobile-45 Wild Hairs Medium Length Styles Layered Hairstyles Long Hair Styles Curly Hairstyles Hair Color Hair Highlights Cute Hairstyles for Short HairDavian Clarke Family First Funding Home Mortgage Mortgage Note Mortgage Calculator Home Loans Loans Savings Refinance HomesWealthzoo Jeff Titak Personal Fiancial Advisor Financial Planning Financial Services Financial Advisor Cycle Financial Advisor Companies5 Wild Hairs and Threading Salon Eyebrows on Fleek What is the best shaped eyebrow for my face5 Wild Hairs Thousand Oaks CA Henna Tattoo Designs Henna Tattoo Patterns Mehndi Tattoo Designs Bridal Mehndi Designs best Mehndi Designs Mehndi Design Gallery1505416181420-FitRevengePatricaNealyfridayfittipsFridayFitTipsLoseweightdiethealthylifestyleloosecalorieshealthysnacks5 Wild Hairs Thousand Oaks CA is waxing better than shaving Where to get a waxing in Thousand OaksWealthzoo Jeff Titak I need a financial advisor in Chicago I need a virtual financial advisor How to get out of debt tips to get rid of debt